When I was learning how to be myself again, after living in a toxic and abusive relationship for many years, I was given some fantastic advice. I had to try to remember things that I enjoyed…really enjoyed. Three things provided a base to build upon; crochet/crafts, writing, and performing arts.
I had worried so much about pleasing others, that I had lost touch with myself.
I have enjoyed these three activities over the last several years, and remembered how to accept and love myself. I try to encourage the AoA kids to find their interests and passions, and it has become an ongoing theme in my work life as well.
Last week, I had the pleasure of going to a concert with the AoA 12 year olds. We saw Panic!At the Disco! I didn’t know too much about them when the 12 year olds asked to go- several months earlier. As the concert date neared, Brother found the setlist, and began playing all the songs on it, whenever we were in the car together. He wanted me to be familiar with all the songs so I wouldn’t feel out of place.
The concert did not disappoint!
I am so thankful that I can share these experiences with the kids. I am also thankful that they like the same genres of music as me. They do dabble in some rap, which is ok, but just not my cup of tea.
What do you enjoy doing or learning about?
~AoA
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My heart is overjoyed! Your love and endless work is slowly taking hold. 🙂
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I have been reflecting on how slowly the healing has been for the kids. I have a post in mind about that…
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I know you’ve said many prayers for that!!!!!!
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You are so amazing! So excited for you and the AOA kids. Y’all have come a long way and are such an inspiration to all who have gone through abuse. God bless you all!
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It’s been a long journey for sure! There is still some healing and recovery to do, and I have faith that it will come❤️
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Yes indeed!! We need to talk soon and get caught up.
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Yes- it has been fairly calm…however, the dad has a new attorney and is up to causing some type of disruption…just resting and enjoying this break🙂
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